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We cover many areas of Belfast, including Sydenham.

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  • Enter your first name and date of birth
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  • Don't forget to add a photo, at this early stage it will help you get a lot more interest.

Profile Tips

Your online personal ad is what makes most people decide whether to contact you or not. If you get it right, your internet dating experience will most likely be a great and happy one. Get it wrong and it could be very frustrating. Here are some tips to ensure your profile stands out from the crowds.

Use a good photograph

Having a photograph on your profile will increase the number of messages you receive by up to 6 times!

Start with an attention grabbing headline

After the photograph, the second thing people look at is your profile description. You want to get peoples interest with this as this is your main way of showcasing yourself to prospective partners. Why not look through other people profiles to see what they have written to get inspiration, remember though this is your profile so ensure it is meaningful and unique to you.

Be positive

Negativity breeds negativity, so make sure you are upbeat in your profile. Avoids sayings like 'no losers please' as this can put across a cynical attitude which will put people off.

Be Honest

If you lie on your profile, your prospective partner will find out at some point! You want someone to like you for who you are, not for who you would like to be.

Revisit your profile

Leave your profile for a few days and then come back to it. New ideas may spring to mind in this time, or a re-read may highlight any spelling or grammatical errors.

Dating Acronyms

So, what’s an acronym? It’s a short version of a phrase that usually contains the first letter of each word within the phrase. They have been around since, well, forever, but were particularly brought to the fore in the 1970s and 1980s with the advent of newspaper lonely hearts ads, as each word cost money and potential suitors wanted to keep their costs down! Nowadays, text speech contains many acronyms (as well as other bizarre shorthand words) so we’re all pretty used to them, but do you know what they all mean?

WLTM Would like to meet

GSOH Good sense of humour

LTR Long-term relationship

F/ship Friendship

R/ship Relationship

ASL Age/sex/location

ASLP Age/sex/location/picture

F2F Face to face

IRL In real life

ND Non-drinker

NS Non-smoker

SD Social drinker

SS Social smoker

Div Divorced

DTE Down to earth

KWIM Know what I mean

LOL Laugh out loud/Lots of love

ROFL Rolling on the floor laughing

BRB Be right back

OMG Oh my God

LJBF Let's just be friends

POV Point of view

GTSY Glad to see you

GMTA Great minds think alike

AFK Away from keyboard

HAGN Have a good night

SYS See you soon

SWAK Sealed with a kiss

TX/THX Thanks

AML All my love

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